Monday, December 8, 2014

December 8


                               
Stuck in Traffic
  
 
 December 8, 2014

Alright, so I've decided to do my email a little different this week considering I feel like my emails have been really lame lately. So here is my best shot.

This week we taught Elizabeth and Lula twice. They are progressing but we can't seem to get them to church. They keep all of their reading commitments and always have a lot to talk about. I love them and their children are adorable. We taught them the plan of salvation over two lessons. The first one was great although they had a lot to say about Adam and Eve. Catholics think crazy things about the whole Adam and Eve situation. The rest of the plan of salvation we had Hna. Perez there. She is a miracle worker I tell you. She knows what to say and when to say it. She brings the spirit so strong and you could tell that they felt it. We asked them to come to church but they said no. Hispanics have this huge fear of the freeway for some reason. That makes it really hard to get people who are in our area to church, BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO TAKE THE FREEWAY.

I had my first heartbreak this week. We have stopped by to talk to this guy named Ivan (pronounced eevaaan) a few times. We finally made an appointment with him but didn't make it due to being stuck in traffic all day. (that is another story that I will tell in a minute.) I finally convinced Hna Hurley to go visit him after 3 hours of service the next day. We stopped by and he dropped us hard. He was like," I don't understand why you would want to come. I already have a church and I don't think you have anything to say that I need to know." I was so heartbroken. We walked back to the car, more like sulked back to the car, and when we got in I put on Hilary Weeks, "Just let me cry" and sobbed for a good 10-15 minutes. I had never been so sure that someone needed the gospel as I was about Ivan. He just had this gloom about him and he said he was looking but hadn't found anything. I know this is what he needs but unfortunately we all have our agency. I think I am going to go drop a Book of Mormon off at his house for Christmas, after all this is the best gift I can give someone. 

I had my first big break down this week. We had a Christmas dinner this week with our ward and the English ward. It went okay except for the fact that everyone decided to talk to me and not speak slowly. A lady named Olga was there and she needed a lot of help too. It was just really overwhelming. Afterwards I had to take a language assessment and I just didn't have the patience to do it. I stood up and stormed out of the room. Hna Hurley was like...uhhhh. We talked about it the next day through and everything is getting better. I just have really been letting my emotions build up lately and it doesn't help anything. I've got to find a better outlet. Maybe I'll take up running? 

We had an English dinner this week as well. It was so different than anything I'd experienced. For one thing I could understand the conversation which was really nice. I feel I was in with the cool kids. It was just really funny. They are a great family. I'll tell you more about this in my hand written letter. 

So my crazy thing for this week...WE GOT STUCK IN TRAFFIC ALL DAY. We had to plan for zone training since Hna. Hurley is STL and we didn't get done until 4. WE were stuck in traffic until 6:00 trying to get to our area. We never arrived. We had to turn around and go to dinner. Then we got stuck in traffic on the way to dinner. It was crazy. 

Funny things. 

1. We have a super stylish elder in the zone named Elder Gove. He always says "Hna. Porter that skirt would make a great tie." Yesterday he saw Hna Hurley, who had worn the same skirt 2 days in a row. Elder Gove looked at me and said "Hna. Porter, you better not wear the same skirt 2 days in a row. I'll notice. See how Hna Hurley is wearing the same skirt." I about died laughing. I then told Hna Hurley this and she said "Dang it, I even though of Elder Gove when I put this skirt on this morning." It was so funny. 

2. We got a really funny miracle call last night. The elders stopped to contact this drunk lady. They described the whole thing in a British accent and then at the end, the lady tried to kiss one of the elders in the end. The miracle was "Elder Durstchi dodged the kiss and held strong."
That might just be missionary humor but I loved it. 

SHOUTOUTS 
Momma Misty
Sarah F
Bishop
Amanda
Dad
Mom
 
QUESTIONS
How goes THE WORK?
The work is great. Moving a little slow. Let's just say there won't be any baptisms anytime soon. That is okay though. Just spending a lot of time planting seeds. 

What is the funniest thing that happened this week?
Elder Durtchi almost getting kissed.

When are transfers?
The week after Christmas. I think it is the 27 or something like that.

Where are you going for Christmas?
I think we are going to Obispo house. We don't really plan that far in advance to be honest. We will probably know Christmas eve. 

What are you doing for P-day?
We have temple conference this week, where we go to the temple as a zone (keep you eyes down, if you know what I mean.) So we are practicing a song that we are singing for that. We also will be playing soccer and going shopping for food.

What was the best lesson you taught this week?
Lula and Elizabeth's. It was really the only lesson we taught this week. Not only lesson but only lesson with an investigator.

Do you ever teach at church?
No. We cant get anyone to come to church. But if you mean teach RS or SS the answer is still no.

How's the Spanish going? 
Maaaaaaaaa. I just wish I was fluent already. It is slowly chugging a long. I'm not sure what the best way to learn it is. James, if you have any suggestions please chime in. You too Casey.

Do you speak Spanish more than half the time?
No. ALL of our contacts are English. But at church and our investigators are all Spanish. So I guess it actually depends on which day of the week you are talking about.
 


  


My first pupusas
 

 

Monday, December 1, 2014

December 1, 2014


 The skirt someone made for me. I love it.
 
What is this??

So, I'm not really 100% positive what to write about because I was just writing the other day, so pardon the lame email. It has been a great 4 days though and it has gone really fast.

We had thanksgiving at the Ochoa house and it was a blast. Their family makes up like 90% of our ward and it was packed. Hna Skidmore and her family was there as well and we had a good time. Our ward is so great. They really take care of us. 

We spent most of Thanksgiving at the church playing soccer. I don't think my body has seen that much exercise in a LONG time, actually ever. It was a lot of fun even through I don't have very good feet eye coordination. It makes it a bit challenging. I make a mean goalie though. I think Morgan Halverson would be proud of me. I did learn everything I know about goalying from him ya know. 

We also played thimble full of water. Everyone had a blast. I know you hate that game, mom, but everyone loves it. Maybe you should give it another shot. 

The next day was Hna Cuestas birthday and we had a surprise party for her at the Ochoas. But it was Elena Ochoa not grandma Ochoa. There is this fun tradition that Hispanic people have and what they do is start chanting "take a bit take a bite" and then when you go down to, they push your head in the cake. It is so funny and fun. Hna. Skidmore and her family surprised us there as well. They are sneaky little guys.

On Saturday night we had a soccer game at the church. We invited all of our investigators and less actives. We had such a great time. Only one family really came but they brought an army with them. We had a great time and watched "He is the Gift" at the end. It was so much fun. It is a great way to get people in the church and also have a great time as well. The teenagers that came really enjoyed themselves as well. We are thinking about making it a tradition here. I hope it catches on.

We didn't have a lot of lessons because it was the holidays and everyone was super busy so I don't have a lot of that to write about. Sorry. We did have lessons just not ones that were life changing. (maybe all of them should be...so I should work on it...)
 
And do I have money to buy some clothes today because I don't have enough cardigans to keep me warm and a little girl drew all over my white cardigan in marker...devil child. Also here are some ideas for Christmas. 
 
Straight up money 
Paper mate pens
gift cards
a bigger purse like my little one
MINI PMG
My little black scriptures. 
A little case like my chevron one that you made for my regular scriptures for my Spanish. But Spanish is a little bigger than normal scriptures. Just for my Spanish BOM though. 
OLD ENGLISH CHEESE
 
Mom. You are the best lady I have ever met. You seriously are the reason I am so great. If you think I am awesome just look in the mirror because you are 300x cooler than me. Plus I just copy everything you do! haha. But I am so grateful for you. You are my hero and I hope I can be as good of a woman as you are one day. 

Who did you spend Thanksgiving with?
Already answered that. But we didn't have turkey. 

Did you have a testimony building experience this week?
But I don't have time to type it right now. I will write it in a letter home. 

What is it with you and everyone's dogs?  They love you
I LOVE dogs. I really miss Cincy so I make friends with other dogs to fill the void in my heart. 
 
What did you think of your November Pillowcases?
LOVED THEM. I put mine right on my pillow case! I couldn't even take a picture. I will try to remember when I get home tonight
 
Make sure to have fun but remember to take your calling seriously.
Isn't that my middle name? Hannah "have fun but take my calling seriously" Porter?
 
 

Love, 
Hermana Porter